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Re: LGBT

Post by Claire on Wed Oct 27, 2010 1:27 am

You can take a guess as to who it was. lol

And bravery isn't what I'd call it, courageous is more fitting. I have butterflies every time I admit something, but when it boils down to it, all you're going to get thrown back at you is an opinion.

Like, another thing that seperates me from a lot of my friends, is I can watch Yaoi and not be bothered at all by it, I do have to draw the line at hentai, of course any kind of hentai makes me uncomfortable as well. Neutral

Back to your comment, I think we've found some common ground again. Surprised
I think the best way to sum up your 'sexuality' is that you have interests, but you don't have to act on them. Like me, if I HAD to pick, I'd go with girls, but sex doesn't interest me at all and relationships lead to one thing. As for the hugging thing is simply how comfortable you are with your masculinity.

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Post by Zane the pure on Wed Oct 27, 2010 4:28 pm

Alucard wrote:Like, another thing that seperates me from a lot of my friends, is I can watch Yaoi and not be bothered at all by it, I do have to draw the line at hentai, of course any kind of hentai makes me uncomfortable as well. Neutral
I'm the same way bro, it makes me laugh most of the time.

Alucard wrote:Back to your comment, I think we've found some common ground again. Surprised
I think the best way to sum up your 'sexuality' is that you have interests, but you don't have to act on them. Like me, if I HAD to pick, I'd go with girls, but sex doesn't interest me at all and relationships lead to one thing. As for the hugging thing is simply how comfortable you are with your masculinity.

Interests as in women, yes. But I need no relationship to just enjoy a woman's company. But as far as masculinity, I believe the gauge of comfort zone is the measure of a true man. Then again, my perception of a "True Man" is that of a chivalrous gentleman, who knows how to treat women, and loves his fellow man like his own family. A man who can control his thoughts and emotions and never loses his perception of mortality.

Oh, and my first guess is kinda lame because I'm not sure if you meant requited love, or one sided. Was it me? (lol embarrassing but I still said it)

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Post by Claire on Wed Oct 27, 2010 7:28 pm

You would know if it was you, bro. -_- Try again. The one I was in love with recently got into a fight with me.

I don't need relationships, either, much easier to keep a hold of a friend. Plus, women are easy to hang out with, period. At least for me.

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Post by Zane the pure on Thu Oct 28, 2010 7:26 pm

Oh, I see... what wuh, you saying I'm not good enough for you? (DBZ abridged lol)

No, I get who you mean now, and I agree about the women, but there are certain quirks with them that are a bit unnerving.

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Post by Claire on Thu Oct 28, 2010 7:40 pm

I don't believe in stereotypes, so I have no clue what you're referring to...

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Post by Zane the pure on Fri Oct 29, 2010 4:26 pm

The women I know have this tendency to expect a nice guy whom they get along with, to ask them out.

First of all, I'm not the dating type, even though I prefer romance over risqué.
Second, To have a date, 95% of the time it involves money of which i have non.
Third, I'm a casinova, for whatever reason, women seem to like me (I don't know why) and no matter what they say, they are jealous to a degree.
Fourth, I'm just not that into them...

I'll be your friend, we can hug, we can talk, we can hangout under the moon the stars and all the other celestial bodies, but I will not have a committed relationship with friends. It won't happen, we can be as close as atoms but I assure them it is all strictly platonic.

And then they get mad at me... Those are based off of experience and don't apply to all women. Just some that I know.

In fact, I'd like to ask the women of this website their opinion, but this really isn't the topic for it.

But when I hang out with Mah bois, things aren't the slightest bit complicated. Just be cool and chill together. Thats why I prefer men as friends.

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Re: LGBT

Post by Claire on Sat Oct 30, 2010 12:32 pm

Replied in other topic.

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Re: LGBT

Post by Captain Venku on Sun Oct 31, 2010 9:12 am

I have a couple takes on this.

One is, as a Mandalorian, I accept people as who they are, what they are and what they do. I kinda have the same mind set about religion. If it's who you are, fine. Just keep it to yourself and don't get me involved. If you accept people for who they are, things work out a bit better.

But, with that being said, as a military man, I have a different view, and I think it's shared with every military man and woman out there. In basic trainning and when we're deployed, we have to take group showers, we share dorm rooms with twenty to thirty people per room. Now, I understand a lot of you will disagree with me, but hear me out. I do not want to be judge or looked at by a gay guy in a shower or in bed. Just that simple. And I've heard this from several people, including women, so its not just a guy thing. If the government allows them in the military but gives them different housing and showers, what is that? It's discrimanation, is it not? So what do they do? Everyone asks why the 'Don't ask, don't tell' policy is still around, and thats why.

Just to let you know, there are rules about how we can have sex. It's true. I am not going into details, but if it's done behind closed doors, and you don't talk about it, it's ok. And its the same way when it comes to this topic.
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Re: LGBT

Post by BLEH on Sun Oct 31, 2010 4:53 pm

i don't realy have much opinion..... i know quite a few and they don't bother me.... the only time i'd be weirded out is if they tried coming onto me.... >_>

my Aunt is a lesbian.... she hid it for years.... we all kinda suspected though as she never had a boyfriend.... when my grandad died she decided to tell everyone...... i actually met her partner yesterday.... we went to lunch... XD

i have this one gay friend (American... so.. haven't actually met him.... yet).... i'm straight.... but i know... that if i was gay.... i'd probably want to go out with him.... that sound weird?
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Re: LGBT

Post by Claire on Mon Nov 01, 2010 5:19 am

Nah, we all have feelings that even we can't explain, you've got yourself a man-crush. :3

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Post by Zane the pure on Sun Jan 16, 2011 8:29 am

Not Necessarily a man-crush...
I'd say more something like "Go with the one who knows what they're doing"

Kinda saw KamKam that way myself. Wasn't gay, but If i were I'd ask him first.
but that's just my opinion.

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Post by Claire on Sun Jan 16, 2011 10:37 pm

He has that effect on people. :p

If anyone has looked past the perversion of my current avvi, then you might have guessed that I chose it because it's my ideal look and wished I looked like that. Very Happy Simple as that people, it's not all tits, you know.

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Post by Zane the pure on Mon Jan 17, 2011 9:32 am

Despite his political views, the man is rather charming...

I would've figured you meant that about Aya in the signature, but, okay.
How's that gonna work out?

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Post by Claire on Mon Jan 17, 2011 1:01 pm

It won't. lol But it's nice to dream.

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Re: LGBT

Post by Zane the pure on Mon Jan 17, 2011 6:45 pm

There are always advances in medical science... so maybe someday i guess.

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Post by Claire on Tue Jan 18, 2011 4:44 am

I already told you that I have no intention of changing anything, here's no point, and it's also unnatural.

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Re: LGBT

Post by Zane the pure on Mon Feb 21, 2011 5:38 pm

Moving from a dead point, anyone got something to say here

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Post by Claire on Tue Feb 22, 2011 4:44 am

Something I've wanted to share with people not part of the T section of the LGBT community, or others who are curious as to how it feels(totally sounded like a complaint) to be a part of the T community. I'm speaking from the male perspective, it might feel different for girls.

To sum it up, you get the same feeling you get when you miss a major oppurtunity, but it comes back up every time it's mentioned or just by simply thinking about it. Basically, every time you see a girl you find attractive or maybe just girls in general, you feel major regret and your heart sinks.

Which is unfortunate, because for someone like me, who looks at art depicting mostly females, I feel it all the time, but I'm too stubborn to stop looking at it because it's so captivating. The body type that captures my attention is something along the lines of this.
http://browse.deviantart.com/?q=megurineluka&order=9&offset=72#/d2ww543
Typical center of attention for even some women. Small build, but I don't want large breasts, too much work and too much attention among other things. Seeing art that captures women in this type of body fashion, allows me to think about things that I could do to either alter my appearance, or it just makes me sit there and feel bad. My own fault, but this is what I do in my own time.

I imagine a percentage of the gay and lesbian community feel the same way, they might wonder what it would be like to be one of the opposite gender. This is probably why I've never judged gay guys, because I know some of them understand me and others encourage me.

Thinking about this also helps me to realize that everyone has flaws, and since there is nothing I can do about this one flaw, I might as well live my life and make it at least fun. Smile Some girls enjoy it when a guy friend has a feminine side.

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Post by Zane the pure on Wed Mar 09, 2011 10:15 pm

Well, other than unintended complications, my standpoint on homosexuality is pretty standard I would think. I don't like it, I'd discourage as much my influince could carry, but its not my decsion, and I'll likely never have to answer for it.
That aside, don't think for a second I'd condemn the use of force to change them, nor violent act from lack of reconciliation. I'd defend people with my life (with the exeption of two types of people) whenever; at the drop of a hat, but know I'm not a supporter.

Anyone understand that?
trying not to sound like "I hate gays" but not approving of either, without possibly offending the many noted supporters here.

Simply put, I don't like it at all, but everyone is/are people to me.
(excluding two groups)

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Post by Archangel on Thu Mar 10, 2011 8:23 am

I think I understand what your saying: You don't agree with being gay or homosexuality as a whole, yet you respect every person for who they are, not necessarily because of their sexual orientation. Kind of the same way I feel

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Post by Claire on Sat Mar 12, 2011 7:42 pm

Well, I can somewhat appreciate that. I don't agree with gay men, mostly because I don't see what they see in other men, but I do support them and believe whole-heartedly that everyone has to the right to their own opinions and choices.

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Post by Zane the pure on Mon Mar 21, 2011 4:52 pm

well, at least a few I know are polite and non obnoxious.
Either gender really, its kinda weird, but I wouldn't get far in life by stifling weirdness now would I?

I dunno how I'm gonna explain not supporting their cause and still liking yuri...
that one's got me a tad confused...

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Post by Claire on Tue Dec 20, 2011 12:34 am

For those who aren't friends with me on FaceBook, I've basically come out of that godforsaken closet to everyone on my Wall. So far, my dad, step-mom, sister, and brother in-law have been INCREDIBLY supportive of my decision. I had to explain to them all the details of how and when I came to be the person I know that I am, which wasn't fun, but it feels so GREAT to finally have complete freedom to some of my family. The only issue is that my mother and step-dad most likely will not be as supportive, since my step-dad has raised me to be the next MAN of the house when he isn't there anymore. And my mom will in all probability deny it for as long as possible, since her mind hasn't been correct in years due to depression and MS.

BUT, I am not going to see this as an obstacle, or anything to fear. It's simply another page to turn in this unorganized novel I call my life. My mother and step-dad will simply have to accept me as a daughter and not a son. It's the way I KNOW I was meant to be, though nature didn't see it that way. I'm not afraid and have no reason to be.

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Post by Archangel on Tue Dec 20, 2011 9:13 am

I'm glad your family was supportive of you, and hope that your other obstacles prove just as supportive

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Post by The Cap'n on Tue Dec 20, 2011 10:34 am

Hey good for you dude, it takes guts to do what you've done. Live life however you wish. But now I am required by law to make fun of you. Nah, just fuckin' with ya....maybe.

Hope you get things settled with the rest of your family.

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