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Post by Claire on Sat Oct 30, 2010 12:49 pm

I'm sure we all have had the pleasure/pain of relationships in some way, even if you haven't had one. In this topic we shall discuss all relationships in general, share painful/blissful stories and go into detail why we love/hate them.

Zane the pure wrote:The women I know have this tendency to expect a nice guy whom they get along with, to ask them out.

First of all, I'm not the dating type, even though I prefer romance over risqué.
Second, To have a date, 95% of the time it involves money of which i have non.
Third, I'm a casinova, for whatever reason, women seem to like me (I don't know why) and no matter what they say, they are jealous to a degree.
Fourth, I'm just not that into them...

I'll be your friend, we can hug, we can talk, we can hangout under the moon the stars and all the other celestial bodies, but I will not have a committed relationship with friends. It won't happen, we can be as close as atoms but I assure them it is all strictly platonic.

And then they get mad at me... Those are based off of experience and don't apply to all women. Just some that I know.

But when I hang out with Mah bois, things aren't the slightest bit complicated. Just be cool and chill together. Thats why I prefer men as friends.

All people do that, not just girls. They get mad because their chances with you are shot, guys trying to get a girl do that, too, but because most are raised to be a 'man', they just suppress it.

A lot of the girls we hang out with like me, and I'm more than aware with some of them. They're either trying to make it obvious, or they're terrible at hiding it. I can even tell that the girl that I happen to like likes me, too, that or she's just flirty. Teasing makes it apparent. lol

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Post by Zane the pure on Sun Oct 31, 2010 12:57 pm

Never had one
Not gonna have one for a long time
gonna keep it that way
not gonna change

simple as that.

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Post by BLEH on Sun Oct 31, 2010 4:46 pm

i want one.... need to have at least one kid... (i'd prefer 1 boy and 1 girl though).. i'm the last chance my branch of the family has to continue.... my grandad never had any sons.... and my only family i have now is.... my sister... who has a different surname than me... and my aunt... same surname but there's 0% chance she'll have kids.... she's a lesbian lol

so anyway.... i want a relationship.... never had one in real life.... had a couple online ones....
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Post by Claire on Mon Nov 01, 2010 5:22 am

I feel as if relationships are like bush-wacking, it takes a while before getting to the point.

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Post by Tainted Dreamz on Mon Nov 01, 2010 7:26 am

Of course most of you all know I'm in a 100% fully commited relationship which of course has produced my little boy Lochlan. Although I never actually planned to have a child so young. But if it wasn't for my partner I wouldn't have someone who I can spend my days with, relaxing, playing computers games, going out. Sometimes it just needs to be the right person you find to succeed in a relationship.

I could go through a list of relationships I've had that include getting beaten the shit out of, been abused, been cheated on but, everyone will experience one aspect of this during their lives. Relationships are a cycle, some good, some bad.
I hope everyone on here finds someone they can be happy with eventually whether it's a couple of years down the line.

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Post by Archangel on Mon Nov 01, 2010 7:44 am

I guess I just got lucky. I met my wife when I was 15 while at work, we went to opposite schools, hung out for a while, and then started dating. Sure we have arguments and our ups and downs, but every relationship does, it is how you deal with that adversity that makes it a good relationship. The main qualities to a good relationship is faithfulness and honesty, the rest will work its way out. We have been together ever since, I guess its just about finding someone that fits your personality that you can stand being around no matter how long, and compliments your flaws as well as your good qualities. They need to have some similar qualities as you, but be opposite from you as well so that they can point out your weak spots and help you improve, that is how my wife and I work anyways.

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Post by Claire on Thu Nov 04, 2010 5:09 am

Happy to hear that, guys. You're honestly improving my hope, I have a prospect, atm. But since it's the first one in a couple years that I want to actually get to know better than a friend, I'm not sure how to approach it. Neutral

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Post by Tainted Dreamz on Thu Nov 04, 2010 7:33 am

Be yourself! I can never stress that enough when it comes to a relationship. Smile Just let it take its time and its course.

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Post by Claire on Fri Nov 05, 2010 4:49 am

So far that's actually working. o-o This girl apparently likes hanging out with dysfunctional nerds, as she put it. lol

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Post by Tainted Dreamz on Fri Nov 05, 2010 7:22 am

Haha, I must admit I met my partner whilst working in a Charity shop, and I arrived late. As I got upstairs he shouted "Ooo someones late" and me, being me, not looking at him shouted back "Shut up you fucking chav" he laughs at me still for saying that to him because he's not in anyway shape or form a 'Chav'. But that's what I mean you be yourself and at least the other side knows who you really are Smile

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Post by Claire on Fri Nov 05, 2010 4:17 pm

I had to google that word. o.o

That's a really cute story, though. lol I mt this girl by oh-so-ninja-like capturing a photo of her drawings with my phone. Her reaction was laughing and then poking me in the arm, then we started a poke war, which is still in progress. Currently, she is winning. xD

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Post by Erel on Fri Nov 05, 2010 5:45 pm

My relationship? It's awesome. I'm going to give all of you a tip, Marriage shouldn't be the 'enhancer' of your love. It shouldn't be the 'final nail' on the coffin or the 'ball and chain'. You should've had all those when you decided to be with that person way before marriage {That is of course if you two are really truly in love}

I knew and know I love My Wife way before I asked 'will you marry me'. I know I wanted to spend Eternity with her the day I felt this catharsis that wrapped me up in its warm embrace and told me that everything was going to be alright. To get where we are wasn't always sugar and rainbows as Sazh put it. It was rocky roads and spoiled milk at times, but beyond that, when things were worked out we were still in love. Now we are in love just as much as we were before but are now officially bound with legalities. If you ask me how's being married? Well it's only been 2 weeks so I can say 'feels the same'. Ask me in a year, maybe I'll say something different. All I know is there is one more experience that will defintely put things to the test and that is having a child {Taintz, you are the experienced one who leveled up on this subject}.

But taking a few steps back, yeah unfortunately most of us have to go through a river of relationships to actually find the right one. Or maybe you can be lucky like me and Zack and just find the person in the first shot, or the first 3. I don't know. All I'm saying never force anything. It comes. And it cums. LOL.... ahem. Well.... um yeah.

That's my story. I'm going to let someone take over now before I ruin my lovey dovey streak there.

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Post by Leonknight on Fri Nov 05, 2010 5:54 pm

sorry i just have to say this.

wow erel...just wow lol

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Post by Tainted Dreamz on Sat Nov 06, 2010 7:12 am

Haha I hope your lady knows how heartfelt and soppy that was Mr. G but, everyone has there soppy sides Smile. Glad your wifey knows how much you love her and a relationship like that is a perfect example of meeting 'the one' ^^

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Post by Claire on Sat Nov 06, 2010 12:29 pm

Dammit, Erel, I was taking a drink when I read that...now my countertop is a mess...

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Post by Erel on Sat Nov 06, 2010 11:57 pm

@Leon: Was it that bad?! LOL. Hey come on!!! I was almost trying!

@Taintz: Well I can't be pervy and you know.. all the time. And at any rate, if I was reading your post right, Taintz, I can't fathom someone hitting a girl as sweet and pretty like you. Damn those guys were stupid. I mean come on? Why lay hands on a girl that pulls off a 'Zell/Cloud' hairstyle so well and have the rocking sweet sass personality at the same time? Not to mention for as someone as small as you are, I'm sure you can hit back pretty damn hard.

@Nemo: Um. that wasn't my intent, dude. My bad. LOL.

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Post by Tainted Dreamz on Sun Nov 07, 2010 7:20 am

Well back then I just thought it was love, and me being me at that point was too nice to even think of it as something else. Everyone has told me I'm too good of a person and I just let people walk all over me. I always thought i'd done something wrong to deserve it so thought nothing of it. It was always an excuse I knew I was hiding behind though. I'd usually go round and see that ex and we'd be happily playing a game like Tekken and I'd end up beating him and he'd go off on one hitting me saying "I shouldn't be winning" at that time I never knew that he was doing wrong. I must say I have my brother to thank for getting me out of that situation because as soon as he saw the bruises he took it into his own hand, literally with a replica Samurai Sword and went to his house. The next time I saw that ex he just took one look at me and shit himself and walked away.

So, you could understand in one aspect it was always hard for me to trust anyone else in any relationship after that and I really am proud of Will for sticking by me when he met me when I was going through times like that.

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Post by Zane the pure on Sun Nov 07, 2010 8:37 am

Wow, abuse over a game of Tekken? what a fail...

Glad you're in a good relationship now.

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Post by Claire on Sun Nov 07, 2010 11:04 am

Siblings are always great to have, especially if they have no fear of getting arrested. I'm sorry to hear that, though.

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Post by Erel on Sun Nov 07, 2010 8:26 pm

Yeah same here, Taintz. But I'm glad you have your brother. And you have your Two boys. =)

I'm sure they are takin care of you just fine now.... or the other way around. heh.


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Post by Larc on Sun Nov 07, 2010 9:25 pm

Wow, Luccie, this 'mushy' side of yours has touch the heart of the people in this forum Very Happy yo-ing dude.

And Taint, thumbs up for you and Will (he's one hell of a lucky guy, I must say). And Locke too Wink
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Post by Claire on Mon Nov 08, 2010 2:42 am

I hate conflict in every sense of the word, but I remember what I said to the guy who knocked up my sister and booked. I pretty much threatened his life if he ever came near her again.

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Post by Larc on Mon Nov 08, 2010 4:57 am

I got a sister myself. And thankfully no guy has 'did' anything to her. That's why I can relate to the protective feeling most sibling have.
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Post by Just_Smile on Mon Nov 08, 2010 11:04 am

@Taintie : I'm glad you've got a good family !

I never had a boyfriend before (except from when I was 7,lol)..

Yeah, I sometimes think it wouldn't do harm, but I'm not really looking for a boyfriend.

If you're really looking for it, I know it won't take long before people break up, and that's an unnessesary pain. They come or they don't and the best thing to do is not to force it.
A friend of my has a new boyfriend almost every 2 months O_o That can't be healthy right ? I find it important, especially on our age (15-18) that we learn to hold on to one person. I think we can develop experience in this stage for a partner for life. I also think you really have to be in love. I've never been in love, though.
You can't hold on if you just accept your 'lover', because you're afraid to hurt him/her by saying "no".
Also, I once read in the newspaper there most children with divorced parents will divorce in their future. It's really sad...


Also, I know it might take a long time before I could find one, because most of the time I leave weird impressions behind or I'm really shy. (yeah believe it or not, but sometimes I don't dare to say a word xD). And I'm kinda "closed"... I hate it and don't ask my why ^^'.

However, as long as I have my friends, I'm not in desperate need,lol.

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Post by Claire on Mon Nov 08, 2010 2:25 pm

My family used to keep a record book on how many boyfriends she had. After a while, her boyfriends started beating records until she met my brother in-law, he's been with her for a little over a year.

And I have never NOT left a weird impression, of course all Americans are pretty brash, so you can say pretty much anything and leave a weird, yet good impression. Of course, I've never had a serious relationship, either they or I just wasn't fully in it, I once had a girlfriend where neither of us felt anything for each other, we just felt obligated.

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